This month marks four years of marriage for my husband and I, and as our anniversary approaches, I’ve been reflecting on how much life can change in such a short amount of time. Four years doesn’t feel long in the grand scheme of things, but it holds marriage, two children, a move, and a season where my career paused so that another calling could take shape. The biggest lesson these four years have taught me though, isn’t about romance or even communication. It’s about rest.